[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/stale-opakujete-to-stejne-a-dite-neposloucha-to-neni-spatnou-vychovou\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/stale-opakujete-to-stejne-a-dite-neposloucha-to-neni-spatnou-vychovou\/","headline":"St\u00e1le opakujete to stejn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b neposlouch\u00e1? To nen\u00ed \u0161patnou v\u00fdchovou!","name":"St\u00e1le opakujete to stejn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b neposlouch\u00e1? To nen\u00ed \u0161patnou v\u00fdchovou!","description":"S d\u011btmi je to n\u011bkdy t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, co\u017e v\u00ed\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d. Sna\u017e\u00edme se je vychov\u00e1vat, ale n\u011bkdy to nejde \u00fapln\u011b podle pl\u00e1n\u016f. Jak to podat tak, aby d\u00edt\u011b poslechlo?\u00a0 St\u00e1le opakujete to stejn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b neposlouch\u00e1? To nen\u00ed \u0161patnou v\u00fdchovou!\u00a0 Ne ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 napoprv\u00e9 neposlechne, je hned nevychovan\u00e9. To je t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edci hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku. Nevychovan\u00e9 […]","datePublished":"2021-12-18","dateModified":"2021-12-18","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e32c915fa5b274a4469e3ef5c1f9837e76577a60613858c5c8a74a3de98e33bc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e32c915fa5b274a4469e3ef5c1f9837e76577a60613858c5c8a74a3de98e33bc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"eiite.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/child-childrens-baby-children-s_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/child-childrens-baby-children-s_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.eiite.cz\/stale-opakujete-to-stejne-a-dite-neposloucha-to-neni-spatnou-vychovou\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":529,"articleBody":"S d\u011btmi je to n\u011bkdy t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, co\u017e v\u00ed\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d. Sna\u017e\u00edme se je vychov\u00e1vat, ale n\u011bkdy to nejde \u00fapln\u011b podle pl\u00e1n\u016f. Jak to podat tak, aby d\u00edt\u011b poslechlo?\u00a0St\u00e1le opakujete to stejn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b neposlouch\u00e1? To nen\u00ed \u0161patnou v\u00fdchovou!\u00a0Ne ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 napoprv\u00e9 neposlechne, je hned nevychovan\u00e9. To je t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edci hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku. Nevychovan\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b se projevuje jinak, a hlavn\u011b, ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 sv\u016fj sv\u011bt a zejm\u00e9na v ni\u017e\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku to nen\u00ed o tom, \u017ee by necht\u011blo poslechnout. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to zn\u00e1te, sna\u017e\u00edte se neust\u00e1le n\u011bco zakazovat, ale p\u0159esn\u011b to, co vy zak\u00e1\u017eete, se sna\u017e\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b po\u0159\u00e1d d\u011blat. Kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 n\u011bkam j\u00edt, jde tam. Kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 na n\u011bco sahat, s\u00e1hne po tom a tak d\u00e1le. U mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed je to v po\u0159\u00e1dku, hor\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e u\u017e n\u00e1s neposlouchaj\u00ed ty v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti. Zkuste to d\u00edt\u011bti jen tro\u0161ku jinak podat a m\u011bjte hlavn\u011b trp\u011blivost. A hodn\u011b trp\u011blivosti!\u00a0Jen, a\u0165 na to p\u0159ijde samoI tohle jste u\u017e mo\u017en\u00e1 zaslechli, t\u0159eba od sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed v roli u\u017e prarodi\u010d\u016f dost \u010dasto rad\u00ed, abyste d\u00edt\u011b nechali, aby samo p\u0159i\u0161lo na to, \u017ee se n\u011bco ned\u011bl\u00e1. Tahle jednoduch\u00e1 lekce obvykle vyd\u00e1 za sto z\u00e1kaz\u016f. Kdy\u017e je hrnec hork\u00fd, nenech\u00e1te d\u00edt\u011b, aby na n\u011bj s\u00e1hlo a st\u00e1hlo na sebe horkou pol\u00e9vku, ale m\u00edsto toho, abyste to n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t \u0159ekli, m\u016f\u017eete d\u00edt\u011b vz\u00edt do rukou a nechat ho s\u00e1hnout, \u017ee to p\u00e1l\u00ed. I d\u00edt\u011b zjist\u00ed, \u017ee to skute\u010dn\u011b p\u00e1l\u00ed a pochop\u00ed tak, co mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te. Podobn\u011b je to se v\u0161\u00edm. Pro\u010d nem\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b chodit k oknu nebo sb\u00edrat v\u011bci ze zem\u011b a d\u00e1vat je do pusy? Pom\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1zorn\u00e1 uk\u00e1zka, stejn\u011b tak i to, kdy\u017e to d\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btl\u00edte. Chce to v\u00edce trp\u011blivosti, \u010dasu ale nakonec to pom\u016f\u017ee v\u00edce, ne\u017e jedno ne, kter\u00e9 ale denn\u011b zopakujete asi milionkr\u00e1t.\u00a0Ano, po\u0159\u00e1d vysv\u011btlujte\u00a0Zakazovat je snadn\u00e9, ale vysv\u011btlit pro\u010d, to u\u017e je hor\u0161\u00ed. Jen\u017ee to opravdu funguje. S d\u00edt\u011btem je t\u0159eba mluvit a vysv\u011btlovat a to po\u0159\u00e1d dokola, i kdy\u017e n\u011bkdy u\u017e v\u00e1\u017en\u011b doch\u00e1zej\u00ed s\u00edly. Zkuste to. Tak\u00e9 se nau\u010dte\u00a0formulovat sv\u00e9 z\u00e1kazy. Kdy\u017e jako prvn\u00ed pou\u017eijete sl\u016fvko ne, d\u00edt\u011b to nebude tolik respektovat, jako kdy\u017e se nau\u010d\u00edte \u0159\u00edkat, pro\u010d ne. M\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 rovnou \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee si to nep\u0159ejete. N\u011bkdy je ale d\u00edt\u011b v\u00edce tvrdohlav\u00e9 a v ur\u010dit\u00e9m v\u011bku u\u017e se mus\u00ed p\u0159ej\u00edt i k tomu, \u017ee pokud se neposlechne, tak d\u00edt\u011b n\u011bco nedostane.\u00a0Trest za to, \u017ee v\u00e1s d\u00edt\u011b ignoruje, m\u016f\u017ee tak\u00e9 toti\u017e mnoh\u00e9 vysv\u011btlit.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"St\u00e1le opakujete to stejn\u00e9 a d\u00edt\u011b neposlouch\u00e1? 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